On a packed aircraft, waiting for the plane to taxi, the pilot warned us that it was going to be a bumpy flight. It was pouring outside, the driving rain coming down in sheets. Of course takeoff was going to be dicey. But he told us to expect turbulence for…
Essays
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The Humanizing of an Author
I know Thea Lim’s name like one might know the name of the classmate you sat next to in math class — the one you didn’t hang out with after school but who enjoyed talking to everyday anyway. I read her novel, An Ocean of Minutes, in a grad school…
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Calling A Writer’s Public Writing ‘Invasive’ Is Just Refusing to Read
Writers write to be read. So when people refuse to read because they see it as "invasive," it hits all wrong.
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A Look Back on the Wild Ride of 2025
It’s rare that I am left completely speechless, but 2025 has been a series of those rare moments. From unexpected apologies to opportunities I couldn’t have imagined to emotions I never expected, it’s been a wild ride of a year. It all started so calmly. In January, I was in…
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Playlists are the New Mixtape
As someone who came of age in the 90s, mixtapes hold a special place for me. But these days, playlists are the new mixtape.
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Writing About Real People? You Owe Them a Conversation.
Conversations are key when writing about real people, as essayists do. Thoughts on limits, guardrails and ethical writing.
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Edit Your Words, Not Yourself
Editing is for your words, not your personality. Here's how and why to avoid changing yourself for others.
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Things I Did Today After I Missed My Flight for the First Time Ever
I missed my flight today. It's for a trip I have been looking forward to, but somehow I just had my timing all wrong.
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Inside My Writing Process: What I Need to Write
The writing process is personalized for every writer. I've found it evolves over time as what you need to enter that creative space morphs.
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Thoughts on Two Dozen Years of Being Watched
I can’t remember the first time I got recognized in public. In the early years of my career, before print news really embraced the digital first atmosphere brewing, I was known by name but not face. And in those days, that was startling enough. I’d receive letters in the mail…